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How to break free from the stress, fear and shame of being bullied at work, by making yourself immune to bullying.

Take back your power: discover how to turn the pain of bullying at work into strength and confidence.

Do you recognize this?

Tense you wake up.

You look up to the workday like a mountain. Another day full of challenges. You feel insecure and afraid. You would prefer to call in sick but...

And the content of your work is not to blame.

It is the atmosphere and how you are treated. You feel ashamed that this is doing so much to you....
Being bullied at work actually affects your whole life.

It's time to get to the root of the problem

Doing something that REALLY works.

To solve the consequences of being bullied once and for all, you have to take the right steps and discover how to really SOLVE the consequences instead of learning a technique to deal with it (yet).

Get your power back in your hands, and prevent bullying from ever having a grip on you again

Live The Connection is a self-healing method that really gets you to the core. And that core is in your brain.

Through this straightforward approach, you will discover tools that will allow you to independently solve the problems that come your way for the rest of your life.

It works fast, it is super-solution oriented AND it REALLY works.

The consequences of experiencing something as traumatic as being bullied require a thorough and profound approach.

It's about SOLVING the stress that causes these traumas at the core and making sure that your alarm system comes to rest.

How to do that, you'll discover in the next few minutes.

My own search was long and extensive

Being bullied is a form of boundary crossing.

And any kind of boundary crossing is traumatizing.

Among other traumatic experiences, I have also experienced what it is like to be bullied at work.

It produces incredible stress, as all traumatic experiences do.

I am a researcher. I have researched and tried different methods. They all helped me a little along the way to have less stress, less problems and less suffering from my traumatic experiences.

But that was not enough.

I finally wanted a real solution.

I didn't find one and so I decided to develop it myself.

By combining all the working elements from the many different methods I learned into one working whole, Live The Connection was born.

I was my first participant of my own.

I tried everything on myself and it works!

I first shared it with people for free and developed follow-up steps.

It has become a complete program that gives people the tools to truly heal themselves from trauma, negative beliefs and self-sabotage.

My biggest frustrations in other methods were that they didn't work or only partially worked and that I was often dependent on a therapist or coach for a long time.

I am enormously pleased that I managed to create a method that is simple, that people can apply to themselves and that REALLY works.

Focus directly on the real cause

Being bullied (or being bullied) is traumatic, which causes your alarm center to be constantly active.

Stress hormones are constantly active in your body.

Having to throw yourself to the lions every day is no fun.

And physically, mentally and emotionally it's exhausting because all those alarms are going off in your brain all the time.

Moreover, it is difficult to respond from your strength when you are in defense mode, you fight, flee or freeze.

It is necessary to unwind, to disconnect the triggers that cause your alarm to sound from your alarm center....

Then you can breathe again and get back in touch with yourself.

That's what you learn with the method.

You will learn how to disconnect triggers from your alarm system and experience real peace.

Can it be done? Yes, you can!

You may think that this is not possible. That what happens in your brain cannot be influenced.

That information is outdated. We have incredible influence over our brains.

Our brains are constantly learning and connections between different parts of the brain are very important in this process.

And you can learn how to create these connections SELF.

We as human beings are able, without opening our skulls, to influence what is going on inside there in our brain.

But how?

How is that possible?

Our brains are actually a kind of jellyfish....

Which is located throughout our body with long, stringy tentacles, in the form of our nervous system.

When we do something with our bodies, it also does something to our brains.

When we put our hands together, a connection takes place. When we look at an image and see text at the same time, a connection takes place.

When we do activities that require 2 hands (think crafts or dishwashing), connections are formed.

Our brain, besides being a carnal mass, is also electrical and magnetic.

Just as radio waves are invisible, brain waves and brain activity are invisible as well as impressionable.

Sounds like hocus pocus? It may indeed seem so, all the more so because it is about yourself.

Live the Connection offers wonderful tools to provide profound and lasting change in terms of obstructive patterns and beliefs. The tools also help to really address stress instead of "learning to deal with it. The processes are not only scientifically based, they actually work! Thanks to Live The Connection, my own life and well-being took a wonderful turn for the better. And also in clients with whom I use Live The Connection, I see great changes taking place in a short time to be able to live fully and from their beautiful selves. Thank you, Live The Connection 🙏

My 'inappropriate' behavior led to the breakthrough

My name is Marina Riemslagh. I am a founder of Live The Connection, trainer and supervisor.

Before this I was a nurse, psychiatric nurse and spiritual caregiver.

I spent 5 years at KULeuven doing scientific research on stress behavior in professionals working with people.

I now have over 30 years of experience in coaching and training people.

And I am an expert by experience and specialize in learning to resolve the effects of trauma independently.

Where does my fascination with stress come from?

The real reason for my search and my scientific research on stress behavior was my own stress.

And also my sometimes "inappropriate" behavior as a professional (and I saw my colleagues struggling with this as well).

Improper?

I didn't understand why I got so irritated sometimes. It made my work difficult.

How could I help someone if that person irritated me so much?

The most annoying thing was that I didn't want to behave that way, but it came naturally and very often I didn't understand myself why it happened.

My behavior was caused by the traumas I had experienced in my life.

Small and larger traumas in my childhood, but also in my later life such as being bullied at work, among others.

I am a driven person and found it very difficult to be so hindered from being able to do my job properly.

That was my research question at the university:

Why is it that professionals sometimes behave improperly?

And the answer was:
Stress, which in turn is caused by trauma, as I later discovered.

There began my great quest to truly be able to resolve stress.

And stress plays a crucial role in organizations and groups in which bullying behavior occurs.

The cause is stress and the consequence is stress.

And stress affects all areas of our lives in a negative way.

The many forms of therapy that I have examined closely work on the surface.

They usually do not touch the deep layer of our existence, down to the level of our impulses, which means that in most forms of therapy, you still depend on your willpower.

And that's not convenient.

Willpower is not strong enough to control your automatic behaviors, thoughts and impulses.

Willpower is not an inexhaustible force.

It usually runs out when we need it most.

After 5 years of scientific research at the Catholic University of Leuven (BE) on stress behavior in professionals, it was clear to me that stress is the cause of almost all our problems.

I became incredibly interested in how to really resolve stress.

I was able to thoroughly explore what it takes for people to truly experience lasting change.

And for the past 10 years I have been working with the tools I developed myself.

Tools that participants can use independently, offered in a form necessary to help yourself.

Stress does not start with events or situations

That stress causes many problems in contact with other people is obvious.

In any kind of relationship, stress is a killer of good contact.

And the fact that contact is disrupted also causes stress.

To resolve the stress caused, you will have to work at a very deep level.

Lots of methods are aimed at reducing stress, learning to manage stress or learning to cope with stress.

But stress does not start with events or situations.

Focusing on learning how to manage stress is putting the cart before the horse.

Stress starts with the triggers that are in your brain.

To be more precise, in your alarm center.

Resolving the alarms and thus the triggers is the real solution to stress.

The method I have developed is aimed at disconnecting the triggers from your alarm center, so there is much less stress in your body in the first place!

This is the real solution to the huge impact that being bullied at work has.

As long as the triggers of this traumatic experience remain active, it is mopping up.

As long as you don't clear the triggers, you will continue to suffer from a lot of stress.

You can possibly learn to deal with it a little better, but that is not a SOLUTION.

Solve it by disconnecting the triggers from your alarm center in your brain.

Imagine...

Suppose you were once almost run off your bike by a red car and every time you are on your bike and a red car passes by, you experience stress:

Your heart speeds up, your hands get sweaty, you stiffen up all over....

You can do breathing techniques and mumble positive affirmations like "I am safe," but the fact is that your alarm system kicks in, causing your body to produce stress hormones.

There is no arguing against that. Your biology wins.

Once you have disconnected the triggers, your alarm system will no longer turn on and you will not have to do anything!

You just know that you are safe and your brain and body knows that too.

I highly recommend this methodology! The connection processes I have learned help me tremendously to release stress, change patterns I had more than enough of, but also to really heal deeply experienced traumas and to feel more connected with the people around me. All it asks of you is to apply them too... 🙂 You can do that alone, but also with others! And there is always someone willing (from the courses I took) to work with you. Really a methodology where you are in control of yourself!

This is because we are so "programmed" in what is possible and what is not, that it is difficult for our brain to grasp anything outside of our programming.

So to properly fly this process, it is necessary to take the right steps in the right order.

What is especially important - and the first big step you have to take - is to be well informed and have a good understanding of the problem.

Because you will never solve a problem that you don't have a clear picture of.

Take the first step: join the EMPOWER day

To properly identify your problem so you can solve it, I developed the EMPOWER day.

But I offer you more than just insight.

During EMPOWER Day:

Discover the secret of "the bully," which already takes a burden off your shoulders. Discover that it's really not up to you!
Bring your personal situation into focus so you know where you are now and what things are going on that need addressing.
Get the first basic tool from Live The Connection; a sort of first aid tool: first aid for agitation. Super simple, applicable anywhere and it gives instant relief (often in as little as 5 minutes!)
Take back your power, no longer feeling like a plaything of your environment.
You experience hope again and know: I can do something about this SELF. This hope alone is healing. Because there is nothing as paralyzing as despair.
You discover: the problem is outside me; the solution, it is IN ME.
Live The Connection is geared toward empowering you to help yourself from the very first step.

With The EMPOWER Day, you take back your power.

In it, you are going to take a good look at your situation. As with any journey, your starting point must be clear.

I really want people who have been or are being bullied to realize that it is possible to take back their power completely.

That moment when you REALLY realize that you do NOT have to be defined by what happened.

This first step must be accessible to ANYONE who needs it.

That's why the EMPOWER day only here costs only €110.

I normally offer these for ~~€220~~.

But I really want you to be able to easily make the choice to take back your power.

Therefore, I am offering the EMPOWER day here at half the normal price.

If you do nothing, it gets worse

And I would say don't wait to take steps.

Possibly you think: I don't have time or energy for this right now. Then know that you are losing a lot of time and energy by doing nothing about your situation.

And it is risky not to act.

I don't like scaring people when it comes to stress and traumatic experiences like being bullied, but is it unfortunately REALLY necessary to warn people.

Stress is a stealth killer. And a traumatic experience such as being bullied, besides being very difficult, is also a major cause of stress.

It accumulates in your system.

If you do nothing, you are very sure it will get worse.

It will never disappear on its own.

Indeed, there may come a point when your body really can't take it anymore and then you have a serious problem.

And it is necessary to be able to reduce your daily stress already, the sooner, the better.

Or.

You can take sedatives.

These take away the symptoms and not the cause.

You can talk about your feelings to blow off steam and be heard, but even that does not take away the impact of being bullied.

Do you have any idea how much better you will feel about yourself when you KNOW that you can SOLELY resolve the impact of being bullied?

So take back your power: register for the EMPOWER day

Only here and now can you register for the EMPOWER day for €110.

Click the button, complete the registration form and receive an instant confirmation email with all practical information.

Thank you!

Thank you for being here.

You are inquisitive and eager to do something about your situation.

I am convinced that if everyone took responsibility for his/her situation (which is different from taking the blame!), this world would look very different.

So thank you again!

Maybe you still have questions...

Below are preliminary questions that other people have already asked:

How long is the workshop day?

The Empower day begins at 9 a.m. and ends at 5 p.m.

Is this day even given live?

No, for now there is only an online version of this day. But live-online via ZOOM.

Can I do this first aid tool (or "The ABC of de-stressing") at home?

Yes, you get the process delivered digitally.

I hope everything was clear, but if not be sure to send an email to
marina@trajectdoorbreken.com

Take back your power.

Join the Empower day so you know where you stand, regain hope and trust that you can REALLY help yourself.

The problem is outside you; the solution is inside you!

only here and now for €110.